One-on-one coaching for people ready to face what's broken, whether in a marriage, a friendship, or a relationship with a parent or child, and do the honest work of repair.
Schedule a conversation How it worksI've spent more than two decades in pastoral ministry, sitting with people in the middle of their hardest conversations: marriages after betrayal, adult children estranged from parents, friendships that fractured and never fully healed. I've learned that forgiveness is rarely one decision. It's a process, and most people trying to walk it don't have anyone experienced to walk it with them. That's the gap this coaching exists to fill.
A short call to talk through what you're facing and whether this coaching is the right fit. No pressure either way.
Regular sessions, by video or in person in San Francisco, built around your specific situation rather than a generic script.
The real work usually happens between sessions, in the actual conversations and choices in front of you. I'm available to help you think those through as they come.
This coaching draws on years of pastoral and ministry experience, not a clinical license. It's not a substitute for licensed therapy, couples counseling, or crisis intervention, and it isn't the right resource if you or someone you love is in immediate danger. If you're in crisis, please contact a licensed professional or a crisis line first. For everyone else doing the slower work of repairing a relationship, I'd be glad to help.
Reach out and tell me a little about your situation. I respond personally to every message.